Ghulam_e_Meeran wrote:
Salaam,
I hope you had a joyful time at the procession.
Brother you did notice alot of mess but did you also notice the team of 15 cleaners who followed behind the march to pick up rubbish and throw it in to plastic bags? They were easily recognisable wearing yellow fluorescent jackets with "milad helper" printed on the back. Alhumdulillah they did a fantstic job. When they were delegated this duty last week at Darul Uloom Qadria Jilani in Walthamstow, the leader of the team specifically said, we will take it upon ourselves to clean the mess so that OBSERVERS do not have an opportunity to complain afterwards and give the deen a bad name.
With regards to wasting of food, this is surely a despicable act and should not be done regardless of whether the food is paid for or not. So that includes people like your goodself and me to not waste food at home either. Because i'm sure you would agree that the rule is not just for milad processions.
When people say they love the Messenger of Allah (saaw) it does n't mean they NEVER commit a wrongful act. Only Prophets (a.s) are free from committing sin. I am sure you would agree to this point.
When you say how can you be expected to accept a message from some body who does bad what is it you mean exactly? That you can only accept a message from someone who is PERFECT? Do you ever give dawah? Are you PERFECT?
As far as beards is concerned, we cannot BAR people from attending milad gatherings due to an absence of a beard. That would be absurd.
People taking loads and loads of food and drinks etc should not be a problem for you unless YOU paid for the food in the first place. The people who gave out the food didnt complain so why are you?
Wasalaam.
Come on, did you honestly expect me to notice the cleaners at the back? I am at the front.. when you say behind the march then that indicates right at the back after the ladies too... and me being a gent wouldnt have known! but either way I didnt KNOW so that is a good idea! However why should we throw things at the floor and not keep them with us? there are plenty of bins on the way!
Yeah I agree with the point, but come on there are things one can avoid and there are things we cant! like we can avoid imitating westerners! the point is if i loved a girl and then not listened to her or kept her happy.. that wouldnt be love, it would be just WORDS! this is what I am trying to imply.
No I am not asking you to bar anyone either.. the point again is of love.. if you love someone you should try to keep them happy!
And you are sort of right and I am not complaining but why do we go on march? to show our love or to gather freebies?